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Post by Blazefur on Feb 10, 2007 17:15:18 GMT -5
Hey everybody. It's me here. Again. I've had tons of problems lately, some of which Misty knows already, but there are others that I just need to unload. So, that's what I'm gonna do. 1) (Misty knows about this one) One of my best friends is sorta going emo and she started cutting herself for no good reason that I can see. She's making her life seem worse to everybody (including herself) than it really is. 2) I've been depressed lately. This is partly because its February (it has nothing to do with Valentine's Day). I always get sorta depressed during February. 3) I like a guy that I'm pretty sure likes me back. It's something that I don't think any of my friends will understand, but I want them to know. Also, I don't think he'll ever have the courage to do anything about it. 4) My dad goes mountain biking with his friends whenever he's not working, so I hardly ever see him. He gets all mad whenever my siblings and I aren't doing anything, but he doesn't do anything either. He always says that he make our living and all that and he deserves to rest, but he doesn't seem to realize that I like to rest after a stressfull week too. 5) I think my dad is perverted. I can't be around him without feeling like he's "looking" at me. It's really desturbing and I don't know what to do about it. Yeah. So now you all know about all my problems..................
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Post by hazelpaw on Feb 10, 2007 23:12:51 GMT -5
Oh my... ok my suggestions, use them if you please, this is what i would do. 1) problem 1, Ask your friend to stop cutting herself, tell her that you are worried about her and you dont know what you would do if anything happened to her. 2) For your Feburary problem think about this, Spring is coming soon! in like a month! And then on to Summer YAHOO! 3) Tell your friends you like him and if they dont understand say 'I dont really care if you dont understand i really like him'...there is nothing i can say about him not making the first move unless you wanna make the first move 4) Well...You could tell your dad you want to spend more time with him...and if he wants you to go outside explain to him that you want to rest after a tough week... 5) For me #1 and this number are the hardest problems to solve...if it were me, i dont get embarrased easily so i would politly ask him where he is looking and ask him to stop. But for someone who is nervous or does get embarrassed easily (i dont know if thats you or not) i would wear a sweater everytime i know im going to be around him... one more thing Blaze. *Hugs Blaze* I feel for you and i hope your problems go away soon.
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Post by Blazefur on Feb 11, 2007 13:14:15 GMT -5
Thank you for caring Keyoto.
1) I have. She's seeing the school counciler, but I'm still worried about her because I think she's only doing it to get attention. 2) Great idea! WOOT! SUMMER! 3) ......That's really hard. See, 1) he is one of my friends. 2) My other friends would be really confused as to why I like him because he's got ADHD and even though he's really nice, they don't really treat him quite as nice as the rest of us..........One up tho! He wants me to come to his house. It sounds like it would be really fun. He has like a million video games. lol 4) *sigh* I've tried that. Actually, it isn't as bad as it used to be...... 5) Yes I am the one who gets embarrassed. I've started wearing a sweater all the time....
Thanks Key. This really helped. *Hugs back*
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Post by hazelpaw on Feb 11, 2007 13:35:03 GMT -5
Np, hope my suggestions helped.
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Post by Blazefur on Feb 11, 2007 18:24:40 GMT -5
Yes they did, thanx Key. *hugs*
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Post by ~Mist~ on Feb 12, 2007 19:56:53 GMT -5
Key....either she accepts support from you or she doesn't. Try asking her if she wants to get on one of the sites we rp on and talk to us. Btw, about ur dad, Key's right. Talk to him, and ask him where he's looking if you feel uneasy. Talk to yer sis about. (if u haven't already) Oh yeah......and who's this boy? lol.
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Post by Blazefur on Feb 12, 2007 21:47:13 GMT -5
Thanx Misty. oh yeah. his name is Tanner. he found out i liked him today, cuz i told my friends. They didn't seem to understand. I was really embarrassed when he found out, but i kinda wanted him to, so i wasn't mad. I think he likes me, but im not sure what he's gonna do...........I really anxious about it now!
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Post by Keeno on Mar 5, 2007 17:15:43 GMT -5
1) If she's just doing it to get attention, then let her know that their are other ways to get attention besides hurting herself, because cutting yourself can have really long term effects and it only seems to make everything worse. 2) February seems to be a very depressing month, I agree, but like Key said, look ahead to the warmer months for solace. 3) I hope everything works out between you and Tanner. If you're ever unsure of something with him, just remember that your friends on FD are here to help. 4) Either we both have crappy dads or its just a common trait because my dad is often gone and I hardly ever see him- but if your dad treats you as bad as mine treats me, then I'm sure you can see how its a positive thing. 5) I'd say take Key's advice and wear a sweater if you're uncomfortable about the way he looks at you, but if he- I don't know your dad- but if he gets drunk or something, I'd- you know, stay out of his way and if something "happens" make sure a guidance counselor or someone knows immediately.
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